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What is Success, for you?

By Clare Wildman / 12th December 2016 / Comments Off on What is Success, for you?

Success “1.  The accomplishment of an aim or purpose 1.1  The attainment of fame, wealth, or social status 1.2   A person or thing that achieves desired aims or attains fame, wealth, etc. 2   The good or bad outcome of an undertaking” So says the Oxford Dictionary’s website. I believe that success is a very personal thing and…

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Your Environment Matters

By Clare Wildman / 7th December 2015 / Comments Off on Your Environment Matters

My Success Environment Whatever you are trying to achieve you need to create the right atmosphere for success.  What is that?  Well it’s going to be different for everyone and it may well vary over time. I got to thinking about that this morning.  I’d had a week off and knew that I needed to…

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What is the purpose of education?

By Clare Wildman / 3rd October 2015 / Comments Off on What is the purpose of education?

I’ll warn you now I don’t have the answers but this question was prompted by reading, on facebook, that there is going to be a Virgin Disruptors debate on education.  Having read the article I decided to share it and add my own comments.  When I started I didn’t realise quite how much I had…

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Glass half full or half empty

By Clare Wildman / 30th September 2015 / Comments Off on Glass half full or half empty

  You often hear people talking about the differentiation between how they see the proverbial glass; half full or half empty. It’s used as a pointer about how positively they see life.  I’ve noticed though that there’s another distinction that is worth looking out for when it comes to how you view your achievements or…

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Should – who says?

By Clare Wildman / 25th August 2015 / Comments Off on Should – who says?

Since I started my life coaching training I’ve become very sensitive to the word ‘should’ and love to replace it with ‘could’. Recently I’ve noticed that every time someone in the coaching room says ‘should’ my first question is “who says?”  It’s far better than asking someone to do the ‘should/could swap’ as it really…

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Pre-season preparation

By Clare Wildman / 30th July 2015 /

As the F1 season approaches we addicts can appease our cravings slightly with news from the pre-season tests.  With just one remaining period of testing and the season itself kicking off in a couple of weeks time all the regular excitement and intrigue is starting to build.   During the off season period what has…

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Oversteer or Understeer?

By Clare Wildman / 30th July 2015 /

Before you think it – No I’m not going to ask if your back end is stepping out! Instead I’m thinking about the amount of control you exercise in your life.  Have you got the balance right? The clients I see tend to want oversteer but have understeer.  Often they go about their day to…

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Who is Travelling With You on Your Life Journey?

By Clare Wildman / 30th July 2015 /

This weekend I’ve watched the film Couples Retreat.  It was very light weight and got me to thinking about the characteristics of different partnerships.  Then on the way back from visiting friends yesterday my mind was wandering as Mike did the driving and I realised that it’s important to know who is travelling your life…

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Loneliness

By Clare Wildman / 30th July 2015 /

I’ve just finished reading a really interesting article about loneliness on the BBC website .  It raises interesting points about the way that our lifestyles have changed and how that may have led to more and more people categorising themselves as being lonely. As someone who enjoys spending time alone as much as spending time with friends and…

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Confidence – Why do we want it ?

By Clare Wildman / 24th June 2015 / Comments Off on Confidence – Why do we want it ?

Confidence – what is it? No really what is it?! The other thing I don’t really understand is why do we think it is so valuable? Let me explain. Over the years I’ve heard lots of views on confidence and the more I hear the more I question.  It seems to me that we are…

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