Yesterday my to-do list went out the window.  I’d planned the things I was going to get done by the close of play and I achieved less than half.  Normally that would be seen to be a failure by many but I’ve been reflecting on it today and I think it was a huge success.

You see in the morning I’d been training at one of our local charities.  At the end of the session I gave some feedback to one of the attendees and didn’t leave until 2 hrs later.  You see my feedback led to a fascinating conversation as I was with an incredibly interesting gentleman and in that time I got to learn so much about him.  As he said “it’s great when you get to make a real connection with someone”.

Then in the evening Mike came home from work and the normal catch-up about his day led to him telling me about various projects at work and all sorts of new ideas that may or may not be implemented.  The content was interesting but what was most important was that he had someone to listen to him.

Again by the time we were done we knew we’d spent some time really connecting, not just trading information over the tv or while browsing the internet.

You know what….it really is the best way I could spend my time.  The tasks on my list….well they’ll get done sooner or later 😉





About Clare Wildman

YES! I’ve found my purpose in life and it’s to help others to change their life. At some level I’d always known that, I just didn’t know how. Guess how I found out? That’s right I went to a Life Coach and found that coaching was the answer to my own life change and that of others.